Learn the character of others, relate well with them


By: N. George

Worth Noting:

  • As humans we all need to do soul searching so that we become aware of ourselves. Whenever you know that you have wronged others acknowledge it then repent. This will provide a relief to you and improve your relationship with others.
  • Doing wrong to others is human as no one is perfect but intention is what matters, we need not to commit mistakes knowingly. The degree of aggression should also be considered as we should try and minimize amount of pain which we subject others to. Human beings are naturally greedy.
  • Cognizant of the self-centeredness of the human nature societies have set their own rules, regulations and penalties in times of aggression. This is done to promote healthy coexistence between people as there are permanent interests of resources among human beings.

The most effective attitude to adopt is one of supreme acceptance. The world is full of people with different characters and temperaments. We all have a dark side, a tendency to manipulate, and aggressive desires. The most dangerous types are those who repress their desires or deny the existence of them, often acting them out in the most underhanded ways. Some people have dark qualities that are especially pronounced. You cannot change such people at their core, but must merely avoid becoming their victim. You are an observer of the human comedy, and by being as tolerant as possible, you gain a much greater ability to understand people and to influence their behavior when necessary………………………Robert Greene, Mastery.

In last quarter of 2019, the covid-19 broke out in China. In January 2020 world health organisation WHO declared it an outbreak a Public Health Emergency of International Concern on January 2020 and a pandemic on March 2020.

Later the same year companies researched and started coming up with vaccines. Finding vaccines brought a great relief to the world where many international passenger flights had been stopped, schools closed and social gatherings banned. Reduced economic activities had led to shrinkage of some economies.

Once vaccinated people were allowed to resume normal operations and mingle with others though with some caution, masks were emphasized to be worn as a measure of containment of spread of this contagious virus. Hygiene like washing hands with water and soap or alcoholic disinfectant is still being emphasized up to date.

People have also been advised to learn to life with the virus. To begin with there was fear of contact with dead bodies of those who are infected fearing the spread but over time it was discovered that dead bodies do not spread covid-19.

There was also fear that expectant mothers should not be vaccinated for fear of side effects but later on this have been put aside and expectant mothers were requested to avail themselves for vaccination especially those whose pregnancy is more than 3 months old.

All what have been happening is people devising ways to live in the presence of the corona virus.

Back in 1918-1920 a contagious Spanish flue broke out, killed many but then was put under arrest.

Such diseases have wiped huge number of human populations, they are threat to global health but understanding their cycles have helped the population to look for ways of surviving in their presence with minimal or no effect. The same should happen to those vices in life which we feel that we do not want but they are in our midst.

Each and every one the world over was created in a unique way no two people can claim to be similar in all facets of life including the identical twins. A simple test like scan of iris or taking finger prints could clearly show all these differences.

However, some people like identical twins have many resemblances. Much as we are unique, we need to know what others want or do not like then come up with ways to live harmoniously by avoiding to do to others what they dislike.

No one can claim to be free of faults if it happens to be so then know that person is either not self-aware or he is a liar and does not deserve to be trusted. Once we realize the strengths and weaknesses of others, we are able to devise ways of relating with them in a healthy manner.

Self-awareness is important in that we are able to know on which areas to improve and where to maintain so as to minimize conflicts with others and also appeal to masses if need be.

As humans we all need to do soul searching so that we become aware of ourselves. Whenever you know that you have wronged others acknowledge it then repent. This will provide a relief to you and improve your relationship with others.

Doing wrong to others is human as no one is perfect but intention is what matters, we need not to commit mistakes knowingly. The degree of aggression should also be considered as we should try and minimize amount of pain which we subject others to. Human beings are naturally greedy.

Cognizant of the self-centeredness of the human nature societies have set their own rules, regulations and penalties in times of aggression. This is done to promote healthy coexistence between people as there are permanent interests of resources among human beings.

Hiding our weaknesses serves as a way of strengthening them while at the same time we weaken ourselves. When we pretend that all is well when it is not, we become dangerous as we deny others a chance of coming up with ways to harmoniously relate with us as they may keep hurting us unknowingly.

There are several theories which claim that all human beings were created by a super being. Behaving as if we are perfect is trying to equate ourselves with our creator and that is wrong as the creature is always inferior to its creator.

Many of the most successful company worldwide have deliberately invested heavily in research not only to know the market requirements but also to come up with better ways of production. This clearly shows that as much as we try to remain efficient there are those grey areas which we need to keep improving.

Let us learn to understand each other, let us learn to listen to each thereby come up with ways to harmoniously relate with others.

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